Recently, I was up near the clinic doors when a woman and her companion came rushing out, looking distressed. As they pass me, I say “Want some company going back?” thinking that they’re headed to their car.
The woman says, “I just need a test to prove I’m pregnant!! That’s all! Just a test to prove I’m pregnant!”
That makes me laugh, and I point them toward the right place… but notice how I, once again, refrain from trying to talk her out of going through with the pregnancy? Just like I don’t go to Babies R Us and approach people to ask if they’ve “considered having an abortion instead.” Nope, I just don’t do it.
Donna and Angela meet the non-client at the door to the anti-clinic and welcome her as if she has just escaped the bowels of hell, which cracks me up too. You would think we had escort-chasers trying to talk her out of leaving.
But I think that’s how the protesters see it. For sure, they consider it a victory anytime someone comes out of the clinic – and that makes sense. Well, unless the person leaving never intended to get an abortion. Or they discovered they didn’t have their ID’s and had to reschedule. I’m not sure the antis “get points” for that, but in their minds they do, and that’s fine.
But it annoys me that the protesters seem to think the escorts are disappointed when somoene leaves the clinic. The antis are welcome to think that means they’ve “won one,” but we have not “lost one.”
Of course, if you’re pro-access, you already knew that. You already know it’s not about wanting women to get abortions – it’s about wanting people to make the decision that’s right for them.
More importantly, the real *contest* is not on the sidewalk outside the clinic. It’s in the state legislature. That’s what counts.
And it’s not just about abortion. Reproductive rights include the right to have children, to not have children, and to parent the children we have in safe and healthy environments.
In Kentucky, we have an opportunity to express our support for reproductive rights now. We don’t want to wait until onerous new laws have been passed or beneficial new laws not considered. On Saturday, November 2nd, we will rally in Frankfort to let our legislators know what we want.
That morning, Saturday, November 2nd, reproductive rights supporters from across the state will meet in their locales to decorate cars for the rolling rally, traveling as a caravan into Frankfort to meetup with like-minded Kentuckians from across the Commonwealth. Following the rally, there will be a tailgating celebration where rally participants can learn more about supporting organizations, like the Kentucky Religous Coalition for Reproductive Choice (KRCRC), the ACLU of Kentucky, The A Fund, and the Louisville Clinic Escorts.
We have four points of focus:
- Comprehensive Sex Education
In Kentucky, bills mandating that public schools teach comprehensive sexual education that is medically accurate and age appropriate have been introduced in 2010, 2011, and 2012, but did not get out of committee. Our kids deserve accurate information.
- Contraception Access
In Kentucky, a bill to allow pharmacists to refuse to provide birth control was introduced in 2013, but did not get a committee hearing. However, recent hospital mergers have made family planning services more difficult, as many hospitals are now Catholic-affiliated, particularly impacting rural areas that are already underserved. Our families deserve access to family planning.
- Access to Abortion Services
In Kentucky, bills that would require transvaginal ultrasounds and 24 hour in person counseling have been introduced every year for the last five years, but have not passed. Only two of the 120 counties have an abortion provider, and 77% of Kentucky women live outside those two counties.. Kentuckians deserve access to a full range of reproductive health care.
- Family Support Services
The Childcare Assistance Program (CCAP) is just one of many programs that provide support to families facing economic challenges. Support for programs such as this one is essential because Kentucky families deserve support to raise healthy children in a supportive environment.
So we’re all getting excited about the rally – and I thought I’d show you some of our preparations.
(transcript at end of article)
And one of the escorts has already got some posters ready:
And they asked me to emcee the rally! So I’m working on a (short) “Welcome to the rally” speech, trying not to be nervous, and hoping to see you there!
Are you coming with us? Head over to the Events page or the website to sign up. Can you contribute $5 or more to help make it happen?
FB page: https://www.facebook.com/KyRoadRally
Transcript of video:
I’m Sassy. And I’m a feminist. And no gynotician is going to tell me what to do with my vagina.
Vagina. Vagina. Vagina.
That’s why I’m going to the Kentucky Road Rally for Reproductive Rights on November 2nd.
I’m going to make signs.
I’m going to decorate my car.
And I’m going to tell those Frankfort politicians – stick to your day jobs.
Hi, I’m Temperence, Sassy’s twin sister. In preparation for the Kentucky Road Rally for Reproductive Rights, I agreed to make some cute little signs, and I wanted to share my tips with you.
First, you’ll need some posterboard. You’ll want to get the crispest, cleanest posterboard you can find so that your message will be more easily read by the politicians who are overreaching their bounds.
Secondly, round up some paint, markers, crayons, stickers, glitter…anything you think you may need to create your message of maintaining reproductive freedoms in the Commonwealth.
Brainstorm what you might want your poster to say. There are some great suggestions on the FAQ page of the Kentucky Road Rally’s website; go to kyroadrally.org.
Once you’ve settled on a message, take a moment to consider how it will best fit on your posterboard.
Then, carefully write your message on your posterboard, taking time to add special embellishments.
Once you’re done, you’re ready to roll out to Frankfort to tell our elected officials:
Kentucky families deserve better..
I’m Temperence, and I’ll see you on the Capitol steps, November 2nd.