Pick An Anti (Part 2)

Part 2

The last post gave an idea of the physical obstacles clients navigate to get to their doctor’s appointment at the EMW Women’s Surgical Center in Louisville. It also included a description of one type of anti appearing regularly.The descriptive list of anti types continues. Again, any of the antis can and do fill more than one of these roles.
There are always antis who believe they can change a client’s mind by just engaging them in conversation as they walk to the clinic. They space themselves along the sidewalk so they can approach clients as they enter the gauntlet. Chasers join as we get closer to the clinic. The walk will be joined by as many as 10 chasers on a Saturday morning.Chasers have one belief in common: the FACE Act does not apply to their actions. Thrusting literature and plastic fetuses towards a client, talking or yelling, shoving and pushing clients, companions and escorts is all fair to them in exercising their free speech against abortion.They will line up across the sidewalk in front of the entrance to the clinic. Blocking client entrance to the clinic is acceptable to them as long as they can keep talking to the client before they enter the private property zone in front of the clinic.
Blocking the sidewalk by stopping in front of a client as they are walking is part of the strategy to prolong the walk. This is done to gain time to talk to them and to attract other chasers to surround the client.
Pushing and shoving is part of their standard operation. Escorts are normally the target of this pushing, but often the clients and companions get shoved in the chaser’s eagerness to stand right beside them.
There are several types of chasers and chasers who combine different variations of the following techniques.

Physical Force Chasers

M is a particularly aggressive chaser. She treats escorts as if they are invisible. She will do anything she can to get beside the client to yell at them. A constant pushing pressure against the escort is a tool she uses commonly. This causes everyone in the walking group to move. A constant stream of, “M, please stop shoving,” “M, please move,” is heard from the escorts when M is the chaser.

Men seem to especially like this role. There are two that come to protest several days a week. T and E will elbow escorts aside. They block the entrance and sidewalk every day. There are also several who show up every Saturday morning. There was one who took a flying leap several times into the escorts surrounding a client.

There are two things all of the physical force chasers have in common. One is their denial. They will deny they blocked, pushed or shoved when they are asked about it. Either the escorts are lying, misunderstood them or it was an accident. They will deny their actions when questioned by any police present.

The second thing they have in common is they are the first to say escorts pushed, shoved, tripped, blocked or hit them. They will report any perceived infraction to any police present.


“Don’t kill your baby,” “We just want to help,” “I will adopt your baby,” “Mommy, don’t kill me,” “Come next door,” “You are murdering your baby,” and similar phrases are screamed at the client from the sidewalk or by chasers following them.

I include in this category the crying women. It is always women who pretend to cry. Sometimes they are obviously pregnant. Sometimes they have babies in a stroller, front pouch or backpack carrier. When a client comes near, they will cover their faces and make sounds like they are crying. Then when the client passes by, they remove their hands and continue conversations with those around them. There are never any signs of tears.


These antis usually express concern for the client in a lower volume. They are especially active if a client is standing before the doors before the clinic opens. The client becomes a captive audience unless they have headphones and music.

D comes out every day. She addresses her comments to clients and their companions. “Everyone has the same appointment time here. The doctor doesn’t arrive until 10a. What is the harm in stepping next door to get a free ultrasound? You will not miss your appointment.”, “Men are raised to protect women and children. You have broad shoulders. Stand up for her. Bring her out of there.” “Be a man, not a wimp. Men regret abortion too.” “All this place wants is your money. They don’t care about you.” “These people in the orange vests aren’t helping you. They don’t care about you. They are just lying to you.” “One in four pregnancies ends in miscarriage. Come next door and see if you have a viable pregnancy.” “What’s the difference between this place and a back alley? They are both the same. Your baby will be cut up and tossed away in the garbage.” “You can always change your mind. You can get up off the abortionist’s table and walk out.”

E comes out several times a week. He uses variations of D’s script, but the message is the same. His words convey clients have evidently not thought about this or didn’t think about it in the right way. His choice is the only right choice a woman can make. E specializes in trying to make younger clients cry and is frequently the target of companion anger. They will yell at him to stop talking to the client and to leave them alone. He rarely listens. A few times he has backed off with a, “I will pray for you.”

A is one of the group of Immanuel Church who come out as a ministry service. They all wear yellow vests printed with “Life Escort.” His words are less likely to inflame anger, but they are very personal. “Tell me why you are here. Maybe I don’t understand because I am a man. Please help me understand. Just talk to me. What harm could it do? I just want to help you.”

Camera Man

Men frequently wield cameras on the sidewalk. They use camcorders or their cell phone cameras to film clients entering the clinic. There is at least one silver-haired man filming clients walking into the clinic every Saturday. We have tried to block his camera. His actions alarm many clients. The police advise us that because it is a public sidewalk he doesn’t need permission to film anyone walking into the clinic.

These films are posted on public websites or broadcast every Wednesday on a local cable channel. Respect for women is not the aim of these videos. This is public shaming.

Lining the sidewalk on both sides are rows of people praying and displaying signs. Sometimes these rows extend a block and are two or three people thick. These are not silent prayers.Among the crowd praying are always a lot of young children. These children will get restless and dance out into the sidewalk unexpectedly.Prayers are sometimes joined by teenagers with musical instruments. They will sing and play from the sidewalk for an hour.Prayers are sometimes joined by teenagers wearing red tape across their mouths. The tape is labeled “Life.” This group place themselves in a row as close to the entrance as possible.Every Saturday there is an elderly nun who is placed in a chair close to the entrance of the clinic. She prays and sleeps for the hour.
The second Saturday of each month the Archbishop of the Catholic Archdiocese of Louisville leads a procession to stand across the street from the clinic. They fill a block and are sometimes three deep. All of them praying.

Signs and Props

All along the sidewalk are signs and posters. They are propped against trees, propped on parked cars, carried by antis or hung by a cord around an anti’s neck. These signs range from simply stating “Abortion is Murder” to large pictures of what is supposed to be aborted fetuses. These are graphic, bloody and are aptly named fetus porn.

As you get closer to the clinic door there are more signs. Spaced in among the signs are statues, baby dolls, an eight-foot cross carried by an anti, and a few times even a door covered in writing. The door was dangerous and I am glad it hasn’t been there in a while.

The Walk

The client has to walk past, listen to and see all of this chaotic noise and movement. This is not a routine trip to the doctor any more.

A few clients are able to face this harassment with a shrug, laugh or silence. They want to walk without escort. They walk confidently past all the obstacles antis put in their way.

Many more clients need escorts to help overcome their nervousness in facing the unknown ahead on the sidewalk.

In closing, I want to quote a recent article from the Abortion Gang blog. This article was written by ProChoice Gal and she gets it exactly right.

“Sidewalk harassers are strangers who, despite claiming not to judge, are there because they think these women are or are about to become murderers. Who the hell likes to be considered a murderer? Sidewalk harassers are there presenting themselves as hostile, unfriendly people, no matter how friendly or quiet they claim to be, and if they did respect women, they would respect the fact that the vast majority of them do not want creepy people standing outside of their doctor’s office “praying” for them.”   http://abortiongang.org/2011/09/a-response-to-jennifer-fulwiler-why-40-days-for-life-is-harmful/
Respect for women is not displayed by screaming, pushing, lying, singing, waving signs or praying.

2 thoughts on “Pick An Anti (Part 2)

  1. I don’t remember her name, but a volunteer picked me up from my house and drove me to the clinic and held my arm as I walked toward the door. She was probably only 5’2” and I’m pretty tall at 5’10”, but having that tiny woman holding my arm made me feel safe and supported. The one mentioned as “D,” the redhead, she got into my face and begged me to go over and talk with her about my baby. I have no regrets over the abortion, but the way that little red headed woman made me feel was horrible. She didn’t know or care about why I was there, she only wanted to guilt me into making a decision that suited her opinions.

  2. Pingback: If You Want To Avoid Anti-Choice Harassment, You Need To Opt Out | Care2 Causes

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